WOMEN & GUNS: PARTING SHOTS . . . Women & Guns. Guns and women. I am continually hearing that the above are mutually exclusive. "Realistic cop dramas" show female officers in short skirts, high heels and tailored blazers with lacy camisoles underneath. She manages to carry a perfectly concealed .45 in a shoulder holster and have ruby red manicured 3 inch nails. The other option is the young "my dad was a cop" woman in her male counterpart's uniform with a few darts added and a white cotton tee shirt showing at the open collar. Judith Martin, the etiquette guru of the 90s, wails that "the day is probably not far off when people will have to install metal detectors on their front porches." The individuals who sport buttons that read "I'm pro-choice and I vote" are, more often than not, not on the side of the "sister" who chooses not to be a victim. The message is that you cannot have the competence, capability and desire to carry a firearm or other potentially deadly item of defense and be a "woman's woman" - or be seen as female, maternal or sane. I wish that our critics would take the time to read, analyze and synthesize "Violence against Women" from the National Crime Victimization Survey of the Bureau of Justice Statistics under the U. S. Department of Justice. According to this study, two and one half million women were victims of violent crime in 1991. And over the past four years these numbers have increased dramatically. The "media" has discovered domestic violence, rails and over the senseless beating of a piano instructor in Central Park, New York, yet never addresses the reality of thousands of women who confront potential serious harm on a daily basis. Although the violent crime rate for males has decreased since 1973; the rate for females has not. The theft victimization rates for both males and females declined during the 1973-1991 period. The rate for males fell more quickly than for females. Women are particularly vulnerable to certain types of predators. Men are more likely to be victimized by acquaintances or strangers. Over two-thirds of violent victimizations against women are committed by someone known to them: only 31% of the offenders are strangers. Approximately 33% are victimized by boyfriends, husbands, or relatives. Only five percent of the men are victims of intimates or relatives. Young, single, black or Hispanic women in central cities with lower end education and family income levels are most likely to be victimized. Women are more likely to be injured if the perpetrator was an intimate (59%) as opposed to a stranger (27%). Additionally an injured woman is more likely to require medical care if the attacker is an intimate (27%) rather than a stranger (14%). Almost six times as many women do not report a crime if the predator is an intimate (18%) as those victimized by strangers (3%) because of fear of reprisal by the offender. Rape is more likely to be committed against a woman by someone known to them (55%) than by a stranger (44%). Most perpetrators of violent crime against women are men (75%) over 21 years of age (70%). In cases of rape and aggravated assault, alcohol is significantly more likely to be used by the predator than when the crime is robbery or simple assault. In cases of robbery, drug use is more apparent. Women who are preyed upon by strangers are more likely to face an armed assailant (33%) than those victimized by intimates (18%), relatives (22%) or acquaintances (21%). In the 27% of the cases where a weapon is present, there is a 30% chance it will be a gun, 34% chance it will be a knife or sharpened instrument, 18% chance of a blunt weapon and 18% chance of others. One of the most interesting aspects of this study is the report on the self-defense behaviors exhibited by the victims and the outcomes based upon the reaction. Women have been told not to resist because it increased their chances of physical harm. This study shows the opposite. In all cases, 24% of women take no action, 30% use physical measures against their attacker and 45% use verbal or passive resistance. Sixty-one percent of the women feel that their self-defense actions helped the outcome of the situation, 23% said it does not and 16% are not sure. In victimizations of women where the perpetrator is a stranger or acquaintance, women are more likely to use verbal or passive resistance an in over two-thirds of the cases feel that it helps the situation. In cases where the offender is an intimate or relative, women are more likely to resist and when they do, to choose physical action. They are also less positive about the results of their actions. Fifty-three percent feel their actions helped them, 30% feel they do not. There is a saying that perception is reality. Perhaps if women would perceive the need to defend themselves and their families, the reality would be less family trauma rather than more. Julianne Versnel Gottlieb, Publisher